Comitter vs. Non-Comitter

Ashleigh Blake
October 15, 2011
English 1101
The Committer vs. the Non-Committer
      There are many types of women in the world, and each type displays a variety of distinguishable characteristics.   Men should become aware of these characteristics before considering a prospective mate. The smallest of personal details, from where and how they met (including the first date), the way she walks and talks, the clothes she wears, the career choice she's made, the vacation spots she frequents, or the automobile she drives can offer valuable, meaningful, insightful clues to whether or not a woman will ever settle down with anyone.   There are two main types of women in the world: the committer and the non-committer.
The committer is serious about finding the right man. She asks friends and relatives for introductions. She is usually open to blind dates and avoids the bar scene when looking for a quality man. On the first date, she is polite and will not bring up the subject of money at the restaurant. She takes her to places where they can talk one-on-one. The non-committer is just looking for a man. There is no room in her life for the man. She, on the other hand, loves the bar scene. She usually finds a million excuses why she can't find the right man and uses such excuses to explain why she is still unattached. On a date, she orders trendy food such as sushi to impress her date, and she monopolizes the conversation. She may even take him to places where there is no chance for good conversation such as a club or a party.
      The committer likes to share equally in conversation. She asks questions and actually listens to the answers. She is generally open about her past and is willing to share more personal details as time goes on. She is willing to meet his family and introduces his to hers. The committer also formalizes her plans. She'll say, "Let's have dinner on Wednesday," or "I'll call you tomorrow afternoon." The non-committer, however, is...